Asking the uncomfortable question

I like to go with my gut instinct. If my brain tells me someone has a little more of an agenda, or purpose to something they are doing, I always feel the need to ask them the uncomfortable question. I had an instance of this today.

I was asked to join one of the committees at the church today. The senior pastor actually called to ask me. I wasn't awake yet, so he left a message which stated that he wanted this particular committee to have some "fresh eyes."

I was curious. So I asked him, as bluntly as possible. "Usually when someone says something like this committee needs fresh eyes, it is because this committee is in trouble, or because you have a specific agenda for this committee that is not being met, that you assume I can help meet. So, what do you mean?"

The conversation was pleasant. I was more ready to accept being on the committee, not just because I feel I could help, but because I now have a specific purpose. I know the exact reason I was asked, and the exact reason that it was I the senior pastor chose.

I encourage all of you to become more comfortable asking the "uncomfortable" questions.